Wed 28 Mar 2007
This will be the last post I intend to make that is somewhat critical of the Baha’i faith. Specifically I will be discussing how Baha’i in general views homosexuality and how that seems to conflict with the rest of the Baha’i religion.
I’ll admit that the title gave it away just a little.
First off, the official Baha’i position is that homosexuals are not to be considered with disdain or with any kind of prejudice. The practice may actually be different, but I don’t have the experience to tell you one way or the other. They are not excommunicated, nor are they to be turned away from joining the faith and participating within the community or the Baha’i Administration (the central governing body of the Baha’i faith).
However, homosexuality is not viewed as a valid sexual orientation, and is instead considered as a kind of handicap, “a condition which an individual should control and overcome.” The only valid or approved sexual relationship is between a man and a woman in marriage. Again, I do not mean to imply that the Baha’i fiath sees gay men and women as any worse than other Baha’i’s, but their orientation is certainly considered to be a transgression against the faith, similar to adultery.
Honestly, this seems rather ludicrous in light of what I have learned about the faith. One of the central beliefs of Baha’i is the oneness of humanity, that we need to dissolve the barriers not only between our religions and concepts of the Supreme Being/Reality, but also between ourselves as human beings. This is a very progressive and liberal philosophy, but it is at odds with this rather conservative notion of marriage and sexuality. We cannot honestly say that we are accepting of every human being if we are excluding some of them on the basis of their sexuality. This is not bringing people together, but rather it is something that keeps them apart.
Homosexuals are told that through counseling, diligence, and prayer they can overcome this affliction. Although they claim that homosexuals are not prejudiced or condemned, the very stance the Baha’i faith takes on the matter is counter to this philosophy. Claiming that homosexuality is somehow deviant and not in line with the norm implies a prejudice, even if it isn’t acted upon. In this view homosexuals will always be considered second class, something that is not the norm, and must strive further to be fully accepted.
This part of Baha’i philosophy seems to be rather inescapable, and I am curious as to how adherents justify advancements in their doctrine. As we saw in the previous post, the Baha’i faith depends on the word of the Prophets, specifically Baha’u'llah. This is because they are the only ones who can know God and thus try to inform the rest of humanity as to what the Lord wants of His creation. But here we have an idea that I cannot abide, and that seems to contradict the rest of the Baha’i faith. Indeed it seems to be a leftover from a time and society that was generally homophobic, yet we seem powerless to change the doctrine, as this would put the supremacy of our own intellect over God’s.
Even if we were ready to leave this idea behind and accept something new, how could we do this as members of the Baha’i faith without a new Prophet to guide us? To change our stance would suppose that we can know the Truth, which can only be done by Prophets, but if we know that homophobia is wrong and inaccurate we are either knowing the Will of God without a Prophet, or admitting that the Prophets can be mistaken.
I really like the Baha’i religion and the way it characterizes God, it has guided me towards a concept of the Divine that I can understand. But this aspect seems so backwards and counter intuitive that I was surprised to find it being mentioned. It seems to do more harm than good to the overall movement, earning needless criticisms and self-contradictions, and the only method available to us to solve the issue seems to lead us to a dead end.
It has been widely, I dare say unanimously, accepted by the scientific community that homosexuality is not a deviant behavior, that is it natural and normal. It is also not something that is seen as unethical by many, if not most, religions and philosophies. If we can move on from hating each other based on our religious differences, from dividing each other based on race or sex, then surely we could also move on from trying to judge one another by our sexual preferences. But do we really have to wait for a man or woman who talks to God to tell us otherwise? Perhaps we can know the Truth by ourselves. Perhaps we can know God without the Prophets.
But you will have to wait for more exposition on those thoughts.
Allah’u'Abha, and goodnight.
March 29th, 2007 at 11:13 pm
The homosexual Baha’i community is struggling with prejeduce in the smaller communities, but this however is wrong, and not part of the Baha’i Faith. Men and women who are homosexual should not be descriminated against; it is not their orientation that is the trangression, but homosexual sexual acts.
The only thing called upon homosexuals is to not engage in homosexual sexual acts, which are totally condemned. Other than that, it is a sin (in my perception) to descriminate against homosexuals merely because of their individual selves.
“Ye are forbidden to commit adultery, sodomy and lechery. Avoid them, O concourse of the faithful. By the righteousness of God! Ye have been called into being to purge the world from the defilement of evil passions. This is what the Lord of all mankind hath enjoined upon you, could ye but perceive it. He who relateth himself to the All-Merciful and committeth satanic deeds, verily he is not of Me. Unto this beareth witness every atom, pebble, tree and fruit, and beyond them this ever-proclaiming, truthful and trustworthy Tongue.”
(Compilations, The Compilation of Compilations vol. I, p. 57)
Whether people of the same sex may have romantic relationships is not outlined nor yet defined, but we shall see when such questions are posed and clarified towards the Universal House of Justice.
I myself am an asexual as well as Baha’i, and I can attest to this lack of definition by the Blessed Universal House of Justice.
You can find me on livejournal as “keiscorner” to which I am a part of the group, gay_bahai. I already even noticed the myriad of answers which are more than sufficient. :) I am not analytically-minded as much as others, so my answer lacks depth. But I wish you well with the Baha’i Faith, along with the rest of your project.
I hope that your dipping into our Blessed Faith will allow you to have a sense of appreciation and love for the other Faiths and Religious Traditions that you shall divulge in in the future throughout this Year of Faith. :D
Kevyn.
March 30th, 2007 at 1:54 pm
The anti-homosexual stance is probably my biggest issue with the Baha’i faith.
It’s hard for me to take it seriously and treat it as any different than the blatantly exclusionary Christian faith.
“We believe in the unity of all mankind… except for those guys.”
It just doesn’t have the same feel to it.
April 4th, 2007 at 6:45 pm
In actual practice, the discriminatory Baha’i attitude is directed primarily against ordinary believers. Gay Baha’is “on the ground floor” can be harrassed, called in by LSAs for counseling (which is just a nice way of saying “inquisition”), threatened with having their voting rights removed, and sent letters expressing disappobation.
Unofficially they are demeaned by other believers who mumble things like “but if you loved Baha’u'llah, you wouldn’t do it”, all amid dark whisperings of apostasy and even covenant breaking.
Meanwhile, and most reprehensibly, on the lofty levels of Baha’i officialdom, ranking homosexuals are sheltered by their cronies. I know for an absolute fact that this includes NSA members and at least one Hand of the Cause. If humble me knows it, how could it be that their colleagues do not?
So the real issue as I see it is the hypocrisy of a double standard…one for the rulers, the other for the rabble.
April 8th, 2007 at 12:11 am
The biggest problem with the Bahá’í stance toward homosexuality is that it is ostensibly unalterable. If Bahá’ís are supposed to be seeking the harmony of science and religion, then this means that their religiously founded scientific views will have to be open to revision. Unfortunately, most Bahá’ís don’t believe that this law will ever be changed no matter what scientists tell us. This makes me wonder what the point of replacing Islám with the Bahá’í Faith was in the first place. As long as we don’t have people thinking for themselves, all we will ever have is a bunch of outmoded dogmas being replaced by another set of soon-to-be outmoded dogmas.
April 8th, 2007 at 12:44 am
I don’t know… as a Baha’i myself, I am open to go against all forms of prejudice, especially those which stem from alternative sexualities.
It is not all the members of the Faith who are like this, just as not all the flowers of a garden have the same colour or shape.
Being that the Faith is quite young, I would not be surprised at the holding onto of prejudices that may have stemmed from other religious pasts, especially in America where most of those who come into the Faith come from various mainstream Protestant backgrounds.
The Faith is not made of native angels, but sinners and those who make mistakes. But it is up to those who have the power to change this negative prejudice into something by which all homosexuals, bisexuals and transsexuals may feel safe and loved, so long as they do unto that which is prescribed by the Central Figures of the Faith.
I have mentioned this to some wonderful Baha’is and there are older Baha’is who have a hard time conceiving having homosexual, yet chaste Baha’is in the Faith. Thus, it will take much time before an evolution of thought against the mentality of prejudice of sexual orientation to manifest.
All I can do is do what I can, and pray. ;)
May 11th, 2007 at 5:25 pm
My blog is fast becoming a response blot to you. I wrote a post out of a response comment to this post.
http://geraldadinfinitum.wordpress.com/2007/05/12/homosexuality-in-the-bahai-faith/
June 10th, 2007 at 8:00 am
A very thoughtful and insightful post.
I am a former Roman Catholic monk who has been involved with various forms of Sufi spirituality over the years: notably within the Naqshbandiyya-Mujaddidiyya and the Inayatiyya-Chishtiyya orders. I have a graduate degree in educational psychology and have worked in the fields of counseling and psychological services as well as in interfaith hospital chaplaincy. I have also been in a monogamous (sexually exclusive) same-sex relationship for nearly fifteen years and have been legally married (in Canada) for almost five years. My partner and I have been searching for a religious community that would welcome us as a couple as well as provide us with a common faith tradition: we will (no doubt) eventually become members of either the Unitarian Universalist Fellowship or the Religious Society of Friends (Quakers).
The Baha’i Faith might have been a perfect fit for me (not so much for my partner) were it not for its heterosexist interpretations of the words of Baha’u'llah. Every reliable academic and lexicographical authority I have consulted has specifically defined “liwat” as anal penetration between males. Anal intercourse is not synonymous with homosexual activity: many gay men never have anal intercourse, nor is it practiced among the majority of committed same-sex male couples. If the injunction of Baha’u'llah is specifically against liwat, then it is against anal penetration between males. It does not pronounce against other forms of same-sex affectional activity nor does it preclude the possibility of life-long commitments between homosexual persons.
Same-sex marriage has become normalized, if not entirely normative, here in Canada. No longer is there widespread social opposition to it, even among the socially conservative. If, however, the members of the Baha’i Faith wish to inhabit a hermetically-sealed, self-referential religious universe defined by its opposition to informed clinical practice and post-modern gender theory, then so be it. The Baha’i Faith may well be relegated to the cultural backwaters of religious obscurantism, wishful thinking to the contrary notwithstanding.
Many years ago, I knew a lesbian couple who were (in effect) excommunicated from their Local Spiritual Assembly because they lived together as a couple. This is the kind of condemnation that one would expect to see coming from the most obscure, extreme fundamentalist cult, not from a faith that claims to promote the cause of world unity. “Weak argument, talk louder,” as the saying has it. I commend you for your refreshing frankness and honesty in daring to question the received wisdom of your faith tradition, and I hope and pray that the Baha’i Faith will, in the future, include more voices such as yours. I for one will continue to revere Baha’u'llah, but I find it impossible to seriously consider becoming a member of the Baha’i Faith. Good luck on your journey and God bless.
August 9th, 2008 at 3:00 pm
Why are many religious people so obsessed with sex,instead of focusing on really important issues such as poverty, famine, war, inequality, and human rights violations?